You’re using an amp with an xr2? Did you set manual card rates?
If you need to push your signal any further than the xr2 and say a 15-17dbi antenna will go (for multipoint), then you need a repeater, not an amp. Rule of thumb for best throughput with an amp - use an R52.
What amp are you using? I agree with eneimi. I have used linear amps in the past that did not like high power inputs. I don’t use amps now. The wireless cards available now have plenty of power.
I am not certain what you meant by “remove the antenna side”. Do you mean the output of the amp? Most high power amps will fail without an antenna or dummy load.
ADD: The formula I used for linear amps is simple.
Determine the output of the amp in db (1 watt = 30db), then subtract the gain of the amp in db. The result is the maximum input power in db.