I have a complex setup and I am pretty new to router OS. My current system works OK most of the time, but I would like to setup a reliable remote management strategy. I travel for work and when the internet goes down, I hear about it and I don’t want the Fam (or sections of it) to go without until I can get back. I downloaded GNS3 to try to simulate my network, but TP-Link does not have any virtual devices available to simulate my equipment.
I have 3 homes on my network. We live in a very rural area and my In-laws live next door and my step son lives behind us (diagram shows relative geographical positions). My home is only about 30m off the street, but theirs are both about 1000m off the street. This means that I have access to wired internet and they do not have any access at all. It would be cost prohibitive to have the infrastructure put in for them. However, using Wi-Fi links, I can provide them both with internet. Below is my current network structure. I have 3 Mikrotik hAP routers one in each home. I have used the quick set to set them all as “Home AP”. The below diagram is from memory and may vary slightly from the actual setup, but is representative. I have tried to setup remote access, but have been unsuccessful so far.

I would like to learn during this process and am willing to do my own research, but I have watched a ton of videos and am not sure what is the best way to do things. I have a few questions:
- Could one of you experts point me in the right direction as far as industry best practice to either VLAN this or use subnets to segregate the different building’s networks? If I use VLAN, would the Wi-Fi links be included?
- I believe the way I have it setup now my router (ax3) appears as the internet to the other two routers. However, the firewalls prevent me from managing these routers as if they are on the same network. Should I move the ethernet cables from the eth1 port to eth2 so that they are on the same LAN?
- What is the best way to distribute the work load across the three routers?
I appreciate any guidance here. I am traveling for work currently and can post the configurations as soon as I get home (after Easter).
