I decided to give uo on this issue, as I’ve spent way too much time stressing about it, and nobody needs extra stress at this time.
But, just for the sake of completeness, here is a comparison of 2.ghz performance in my case, on both the MT and TP-link.
Thank you for the comments and information, I have learned something new through this experience.
For clarity, I will be running iperf3 with the default options - “iperf3 -c ”, which uses a TCP connection, as stated in the man page:
The actual test data is sent over a separate TCP connection, as a separate flow of UDP packets, or as an inde‐
pendent SCTP connection, depending on what protocol was specified by the client.
This is the current situation at the time of writing.
TP-link:

while playing a youtube video and sending audio to the raspberry:

while running iperf3, it jumps to 135mbps a few times, but is utually on 72mbps most of the time

iperf3: (full output here)
[ ID] Interval Transfer Bitrate Retr
[ 5] 0.00-30.00 sec 153 MBytes 42.9 Mbits/sec 1 sender
[ 5] 0.00-30.03 sec 151 MBytes 42.2 Mbits/sec receiver
hAp AC2 - wlan1 interface reset configuration to defaults, here is the wifi situation with just the MT active
0 name="wlan1" mtu=1500 l2mtu=1600 mac-address=08:55:31:FF:A7:E9 arp=enabled disable-running-check=no interface-type=IPQ4019 radio-name="085531FFA7E9"
mode=ap-bridge ssid="MikroTik" area="" frequency-mode=regulatory-domain country=etsi installation=any antenna-gain=3 frequency=2412 band=2ghz-b/g/n
channel-width=20mhz secondary-frequency="" scan-list=default wireless-protocol=any rate-set=default supported-rates-b=1Mbps,2Mbps,5.5Mbps,11Mbps
supported-rates-a/g=6Mbps,9Mbps,12Mbps,18Mbps,24Mbps,36Mbps,48Mbps,54Mbps basic-rates-b=1Mbps basic-rates-a/g=6Mbps max-station-count=2007 distance=dynamic
tx-power-mode=default vlan-mode=no-tag vlan-id=1 wds-mode=disabled wds-default-bridge=none wds-default-cost=100 wds-cost-range=50-150 wds-ignore-ssid=no
update-stats-interval=disabled bridge-mode=enabled default-authentication=yes default-forwarding=yes default-ap-tx-limit=0 default-client-tx-limit=0
wmm-support=disabled hide-ssid=no security-profile=default wps-mode=push-button station-roaming=disabled disconnect-timeout=3s on-fail-retry-time=100ms
preamble-mode=both compression=no allow-sharedkey=no station-bridge-clone-mac=00:00:00:00:00:00 ampdu-priorities=0 guard-interval=any
ht-supported-mcs=mcs-0,mcs-1,mcs-2,mcs-3,mcs-4,mcs-5,mcs-6,mcs-7,mcs-8,mcs-9,mcs-10,mcs-11,mcs-12,mcs-13,mcs-14,mcs-15,mcs-16,mcs-17,mcs-18,mcs-19,mcs-20,mcs-
21,mcs-22,mcs-23
ht-basic-mcs=mcs-0,mcs-1,mcs-2,mcs-3,mcs-4,mcs-5,mcs-6,mcs-7 tx-chains=0,1 rx-chains=0,1 amsdu-limit=8192 amsdu-threshold=8192 tdma-period-size=2
nv2-queue-count=2 nv2-qos=default nv2-cell-radius=30 nv2-security=disabled nv2-preshared-key="" nv2-mode=dynamic-downlink nv2-downlink-ratio=50
nv2-sync-secret="" hw-retries=7 frame-lifetime=0 adaptive-noise-immunity=none hw-fragmentation-threshold=disabled hw-protection-mode=none
hw-protection-threshold=0 frequency-offset=0 rate-selection=advanced multicast-helper=default multicast-buffering=enabled keepalive-frames=enabled
skip-dfs-channels=disabled
While playing youtube video:


while running iperf3


iperf3, full output here
[ ID] Interval Transfer Bitrate Retr
[ 5] 0.00-30.00 sec 206 MBytes 57.7 Mbits/sec 1091 sender
[ 5] 0.00-30.00 sec 206 MBytes 57.6 Mbits/sec receiver