Probably those packets are dropped by any queue you might have in. If you don’t have any queue then they are dropped by the default queue of the interface. Increasing the size of the queue might help, though it will increase the latency.
You can create a new queue by duplicating the “ethernet-default” and naming it as you wish. Increase the size from 50 to 100 for example and assign the created queue to the interface and see if this will help or not.
Yep I get that, but is it a software queue and does it help with the hardware queue. I am getting dropped packets into the router I believe cause the buffers are full.