This can be accomplished.
I just paid Butch Evans (
http://www.butchevans.com) to do it for me...
We have an SDSL for internet traffic and a T1 for VoIP calls...
With the proper SIP "Flow-Mark" and Routing this can be done and it works extremely well...
My last bit of advice is GET PUBLIC IP's and SUBNET THEM YOURSELF!!!
It will make your life much much easier!!
D.S.