In order of asking:
1- Yes but see further down
2- Yes and also here with a twist
3- Because default it is not present on Hex Refresh
Now the long story
Somewhere early ROS7 Mikrotik made Wave2 drivers for their AX-line of devices. Those were to be loaded as a separate package since legacy wireless drivers were present as default.
As of 7.13 they reversed everything, wave2-basics are default present in ROS7 package (but you still need to load the wifi drivers themselves for devices requiring them). For device running legacy wireless, you need to use wireless package.
Hex Refresh is a wired-only device but since it runs ROS7, basic hooks for AX-line are there. Also capsman for AX-devices since that one is higly integraded with the wifi menu.
If you want to use it as capsman for legacy devices, you need to add wireless package (it's in the extra packages zip file), reboot your router and legacy capsman will be there under wireless.
Now the twist ... cap-ac devices are also capable of running wave2 drivers (uninstall wireless, reboot, install wifi-qcom-ac package, reboot).
So if you are only using those devices as access point and nothing else, you can benefit from using those drivers on those devices. It makes a noticeable difference in wifi behavior !
And then you do not need to install wireless on Hex since capsman for wave2 is present as default.
But ... it comes at a cost. Flash space on cap AC is really limited and using those drivers will consume close to all space on that device.
Also, wave2 drivers are quite a bit different as far as VLAN handling is concerned when using it in combination with capsman so it might not be the wisest decision to jump into the pool feet first if you're not comfortable with that part yet.