Posting in the Beginner section - but feel free to move the post, if it should be.
I'm no "beginner", but my CCNA was a long time ago, and while I'm quite technical, I admit that all my Mikrotik stuff usually just "works out of the box" for me... so either it's me, or the wAPax is a nightmare, has issues - OR - needs serious tweaking from the factory - that I have NOT found instructions for yet.
I've deployed 100+ Mikrotik devices... lots of cAPac, wAPac, and always to great delight and success. (for me, and my customers)
I've even used CAPSMAN a few times in larger setups, but that's not what today's challenge is about. (I know capsman has issues with wAPax)
I admit, that while I can work a CLI if I have to, I really do prefer the WinBox... it's just SOOOOO pleasant to see blanks, configure a minimalist approach, and walk away. (that's what I mean by "works out of the box" above)
Bear with me... as I spell out today's challenging setup at a site, after some "recurring strangeness" since I started adding wAPax units to the mix, in a NUMBER of locations. Usually, there are a lot of variables, neighbours, excuses for interference, blah blah blah.
Not so much this time - so that's why my post. THIS SHOULD JUST WORK, and work awesomely.
Rural Canadian setup, as in, so rural that Starlink is the source internet.
When doing a full scan from the highest point/device on a tower, I can see a few Bell devices from neighbouring properties, that are obviously using cellular Bell Canada conversion systems. But, we are talking about a very quiet area.... no radar, no strangeness, maybe 3 of these Bell systems showing on the scan list.
All devices updated and running 7.19.1
Two houses, plus some outbuildings.
All sharing internet mounted on building 1.
75m apart, the two main buildings. (forgive me US friends, multiply by 3 to get feet)
Wired Gb ethernet (via the mid-position-cabin) between them.
Building 1 - modern wood construction, wood siding exterior.
Served internal wifi by an hAPac. Works well, always has.
Garage has metal cladding, so added a cAPac on wired ethernet, to enhance access in there. No issues.
Recently added two wAPax units, to upper rear, and front deck, hoping to expand coverage beyond building - "from the road to the waterfront", sort of idea. (figuring that anything exterior wAP from Mikrotik should KILL this coverage. (it always has - like we are talking open line of sight!!)
Yet... not exactly stunning results...
Small cabin between building 1 & 2, wood construction & exterior.
Served internal wifi by a cAPac, that also acts as the mid-way relay point for ethernet between building 1 & 2.
wifi also nicely spreads out beyond, to surrounding outdoors around it, lightly wooded areas. Working signal still, 20m away.
Building 2 - older wood construction, metal siding and roofing. (yeah, I know, it's a Faraday cage)
It is served wifi by a cAPac, works well inside, but as you can imagine is "spotty" outside the building.
Yesterday, I added a wAPax that I had set aside, to this second building.
I mounted it up, on the old standard 3-C-channel TV tower that has been on the building forever, figuring that the height (10m up) would give me EXTENSIVE coverage, of everything outside this metal clad building, and in particular, a 2.4Ghz connection for the new Tesla wall charger, 22m away, open sight... through AT WORST a few leafy branches. (I can still SEE the wAPax from the charger)
This should be all - no-brainer solutions.
Yet, the wall charger barely stays connected... and as I walked around today using the ol' "wifi sweet spots" app on the iPhone, not only was the signal speed/strength all over the map, but I realized afterwards, that it wasn't even connecting to the 5Ghz, but was clinging to the crappy 2.4Ghz radio on the wAPax, the whole time.
Like, literally - an elevated position, 5m (15ft) above the roof line, where I can see it through the trees, and speed is dropping to 2Mbps, and such crap.
So - what am I doing wrong?
My configs are, and have always been dead simple.
I power units up from factory, login from lan side on WinBox.
Change SSIDs (both same for all), set to Canada, set to WPA2PSK and set the key.
Disable DHCP server, and set both Ether ports to bridge. (no WAN, no routing needed)
Yet, they suck.
Have done lots of wAPac units too, and they "just work", much like the cAPac.
What am I missing?
(happy to share configs, files, tell me what you want to see!)

Also open to any replies that say "you're an idiot, you need to turn on X"...

thanks!
Andrew