Lan ports 10Mbps only, and cannot access the router when tagged port1 switch

Interesting your DLINK is different from mine but I think I see where.
IN the VLAN menu I have a separate selection and the order is put in all the necessary VLAN-IDS in the 802.1q menu entry.
This seems the same for both switches.
When one enters a new VLANID here, it automatically enters in that VLANID in every trunk port that is already assigned, so one has to then remove that vlanID from all trunk ports where that vlan is ntor required. The actual assignments of ports etc, is not done in 802.1q the meat of the work, but is done in my menu selection of VLAN INTERFACE.
I will post my config in pics next. Before I do that I believe that the settings for something similar are ON YOUR 802.1Q page, in the upper RIGHT where it said VID and PVID.
I dont have those. So I will ask you to post a picture of each one of those selections.

So here are my pics which show my 802.1q selection, my VLAN Interface page, and then I will show a TRUNK Port assignment (ether4) and an access port assignment ether3.
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Pay close attention to ether4, the trunk port and ether3 an access port.
trunk.JPG
vlanIe.JPG
8021.JPG
access.JPG