Need assistance with VLAN Firewall and NAT rules

Your life would be much easier if you choose to go VLAN all the way. Lots of (correct) and great examples can be found in this topic:
http://forum.mikrotik.com/t/using-routeros-to-vlan-your-network/126489/1

In regards to the firewall, you could consider allowing explicitely and dropping everything else. Just make sure that you allow access to yourself so you can still manage the device.